Again, many points on this post would apply if you switched the genders around. I’m referring to maturity, life vision and stage of life.
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According to researchers from Binghamton University, Northeastern University, and the University of Massachusetts Lowell, the answer is a resounding “yes.” Their study found that, in general, men tend to be much more aggressive on dating sites, sending multitudes of messages to different potential partners, whereas women take a more pragmatic approach to messaging.
Unfortunately, it’s not a tactic that seems to work out too well for them.“We found that males like to send a lot of messages to attractive female users, but they don’t get a lot of responses,” said Shuangfei Zhai, co-author of the study.
Women, on the other hand, tended to gauge their own attractiveness and the chances of a successful match before sending a message.
If you are a boy, then expect that you will attract only girls.