They also experience severe anger and frequently undermine their significant others.
Those suffering with borderline personality disorder (BPD) have a proclivity for unstable interpersonal relationships.
These individuals are unable to tolerate being alone due to their abandonment anxiety.
First and foremost, when it comes to recovering from abuse in your BPD relationship, you need to understand that the abuse thrown your way was their choice. And while you may realize now that you should have behaved and handled it differently, that doesn’t change the fact that you were treated horribly at times. I always tell people when they’re feeling depressed that they can’t blame themselves for the abuse they received.
You might also feel like you’re the crazy one at this point.
If you have been diagnosed with BPD, it can be helpful to think about how your symptoms have affected your romantic relationships.